Wednesday 23 October 2013

Cups, Mugs and Glasses

Are you a china cup person or do you prefer a mug of tea?  China tea sets seem to be slipping away into the distant past when they were used regularly for afternoon tea.  Perhaps your mother treasured one which was housed in a cabinet or 'tall boy' with glass doors.  The 'China Cabinet' would only be opened on special occasions or when certain visitors arrived - Great Auntie Nancy, Nan or Mrs N. from No. 5?  Working class people used pottery cups and saucers - the shape and feel to the lips of which were totally different to the 'best' cups.  Then came the mugs and teabags to replace teapots, loose tea and tea strainers.


 
Do you type-cast the mugs in your home?  Do you have thick set builder's mugs, men's mugs, kiddies mugs, china mugs for mum and a set of mugs that cousin Jane gave you for Christmas many years ago, that do for all?  Do you use, for yourself, one type of mug for your early morning cuppa and another for your elevenses?  One for tea and another for coffee?  What about that soothing hot chocolate drink - is that in a chunky thick rimmed mug - one you can wrap your hands around on a cold evening; or the purple one that reminds you of a certain chocolate brand?  Did your Dad have a tin mug and plate he used for work - painted white with a blue or black rim?  Well used ones would have chipped paint, showing more black or even the silver of the metal underneath.  And why do they give old people in hospital or nursing homes plastic mugs of tea?  What does that do for the flavour and experience of the thirst quenching drink?
 
With the dawning of new ways of serving coffee in coffee shops, so too came new shapes of cups and glass containers - latte and frappe 'mugs'.  Does your town centre favour coffee shops over 'Tea Rooms?'  Remember 'Lyons'?  Tea Shops are more likely to be found in country villages and how we love to visit them and see the china cups again being served with cakes and scones on cake stands and doilies.  "How quaint," we say.
 



 
Do you remember Corona fizzy pop, delivered to your door and poured into a moderate sized glass?  Pop was certainly a welcome change from orange squash.  Children delighted to see the array of coloured bubbly drinks at party times.  School friends would gather around the table laden with rabbit shaped blamonge and greengage jelly, jam tarts and a block of Neapolitan ice-cream with wafers waiting to be served after the consumption of sandwiches and crisps.  If the grown-ups were out of the room, mixing the fizzy drinks was such fun.  Whatever happened to Dandelion and Burdock?  Cola and Lemonade seem to be stocked in abundance now on supermarket shelves but the green colour of lemon and lime or the red of cherryade is harder to find.
 
Are your soft drink vessels called 'Glasses' (as in 'asses') or 'Glasses' (as in 'arses' - excuse me!).  Do you prefer tall thin edged ones or stouter chunky ones.  Do you choose one sort for having a glass of water and another for your evening alcoholic tipple?  Do men prefer a beer glass with a handle or a half pint straight glass embellished with a logo?  Does the thickness of the glass have any bearing to the taste of their drink of larger, Guinness or mild brew?  Does anyone still use tankards?  What sort of glass holds the 'hard stuff' or is a tot of whiskey, rum or brandy another fading older person's tradition?
 
Whatever your drinking vessel, just take a minute to think about it; pop down memory lane in comparison and appreciate your cup, mug or glass of today.  Cheers!

Tuesday 1 October 2013

BABY SHOWER

PINK FOR A GIRL.....

Favour Boxes - a little 'thank you' for those who attended.
 
Baby feet cookies; pink lemonade & rose spritzer; ready to pop/popcorn

 
I attended my first Baby Shower party recently.  My daughter and I gave it a real 'home made' feel with creations we found on Pinterest.  The Mum-to-be was surprised on a Saturday evening when she was feeling a little fed up (9 months is a long time to wait) and her friends 'showered' her with gifts for the baby.  Knowing the baby was to be a girl made buying gifts easier and all the guests 'oooooooh'd' and 'aaaarrrr'd' at each little dress or toy that was opened.  'Guess the date and time of birth'  was played along with one or two other party games.  A good time was had by all.
 
 
I shared my lovely experience with others afterwards and noted their response.  Some where interested and others thought that it was just another idea come over from America for shopkeepers to make money out of.  Other gripes were 'what if it turns out not to be a girl?' and 'what if something goes wrong?'  Both of course were valid questions as partying before the birth is an upcoming trend. 
 
Traditions of not having a pram in the house until after the birth, seem to be lost.  Now the nursery is decorated well in advance.  The 'layette' is no longer hand-knitted booties and bonnets but named baby vests and  tiny designer trainers.  Themes of favourite Disney or television cartoon characters start the unborn off to a world of collecting the latest 'must-haves' and the equipment is doubled or trebled for two cars, places of care and holiday times.  It's all far more interesting and exciting than 35 years ago when yellow ducks floated in the bath and squeeky toys ended up in the dog's bed!
 
Whatever your view of pre-birth celebrations, if you have a baby due in the family, or friendship circle, soon why not try  making some hand-made gifts.  It is often the knitted teddy that baby favours most rather than the expensive red-ribboned dust collector that will end up sitting in a corner unloved.
 
An 'initial' picture for the nursery wall